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tamara24 · 07-28-2010, 07:23 AM

You know, you stated you do not have kids, but the dogs were your kids. You had them almost as long as a kid! DO you think maybe your wife is grieving? It sounds to me that she is lonely.

I don't think your request is unreasonable, yet you need to sit her down at some point and talk to her aout it. Would she like another dog? Would she benefit from some counseling? Make sure if your plan is to snowbird, you find a counsler in both areas that she can talk to.

Maye if she sees you are willing to let her move close to her friends in Florida, if she stays by yourside and comes to NY, she will feel better about things. Tell her that you miss her and you are lonely. That is the only way you are going to start any communication with her.

Best of luck,keep us posted.

07-28-2010, 07:23 AM	#3 (permalink)
tamara24 Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 396	Re: I am so upset, lonely and lost You know, you stated you do not have kids, but the dogs were your kids. You had them almost as long as a kid! DO you think maybe your wife is grieving? It sounds to me that she is lonely. I don't think your request is unreasonable, yet you need to sit her down at some point and talk to her aout it. Would she like another dog? Would she benefit from some counseling? Make sure if your plan is to snowbird, you find a counsler in both areas that she can talk to. Maye if she sees you are willing to let her move close to her friends in Florida, if she stays by yourside and comes to NY, she will feel better about things. Tell her that you miss her and you are lonely. That is the only way you are going to start any communication with her. Best of luck,keep us posted.