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Old 07-28-2010, 11:58 AM   #9 (permalink)
JMak00
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Thanks, Hunt. I just don't know what to do. She believes she needs to find herself. This is because our marriage has caused her to forego doing certain things. For example, she believes she is a passive person and because of that, agreed with me that pursuing a masters degree when she would be a stay at home mom would be wasteful (I don't recall it that way). So she decided not to pursue it.

She feels that if she decides to work on it that she is conceding, again, giving up.

I just don't know what to do that gives us a chance to get over that resentment and get her to a place where she's not feeling that working on this is giving in/conceding...

I really appreciate the insight and advice.
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