| | Re: Infidelity and Pregnancy
If you can get past the baby not being yours, you love your wife and she loves you there is a way forward.
She needs to cut off all contact with the OM, she must leave her job, no feet in both camps, no testing the waters with you, this answer comes first before you commit to her.
It will be hard work, many have done it, the child has loved his Dad (in this case it might be you)
Your wife has to confirm she want to be with you and she does love you, work on your relationship, rebuild your marriage and then deal with the baby as if it is yours.
It will not be easy.