| | Re: Partner Talks to me like 3rd Grader-Advice
It really is an unfortunate situation, the way you describe it. I think you are well aware of the fact you need to leave, since you could never fully commit to living with her. If you've always got one foot out the door by having a separate place, I'm sure she feels that and isn't helping with her emotional imbalance.
I agree with susan that you're not setting a positive example for your son on positive relationship dynamics. I think you should either move in with her, or move on. It's ridiculous to pay child support, rent, AND be there as an active father. Child support is for parents who truly are on their own- without the other parent.
So, I see two options for you... either move in, or move on. But be aware of the examples that you set for your children.
Good luck to you.