Re: bedroom talk has left me feeling awful
Anal play is one thing and doesn't make anyone gay.
Expressing a desire to have a man penetrate him while in the heat of the moment with his wife? Well I'm thinking he's at least bi/curious.
Kind of weird. It's like being at dinner - "OMG this steak is so delicious - I wish I had some chicken!!" Doesn't make much sense. To me anyway.
I can tell you it's not something I've ever thought about while being turned on in bed with my wife.
Or any other time for that matter but I don't judge.