Re: Men and sex
Sex is your H love language. 10 years and kids do not make a marriage for your H. It is only part of it. Connection makes his marriage fulfilled. Normal to me. Normal for my W. Sex, holding hands and snuggling is my W love language. She feels loved, fulfilled and safe when we are intimate, hold hands and attentive. It is her love language.
Your H is perfectly normal as is his desire for intimacy to make a connection with the woman he loves.
PS. When my W is more intimate with me, holds hands and attentive my world is great.
“You're painfully alive in a drugged and dying culture.”
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