Re: Planning holidays, dates etc
We plan most things together unless it is a surprise for the other. Our Anniversary we take turns each year to plan.
Our lives are very busy and the first half of this year is quite booked up with events, concerts, 2 weekends away etc. We both like going out to dinner so we try to go once a week at a bare minimum, that is rarely planned but more of a spontaneous thing. It seems to work for us, it's a good team effort and probably works well because we share very similar hobbies and interests. He does play his sport one night a week so that is my "me" time