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#1 ·
Small issue it seems. Several women have had issue with my size. However, my member apparently has caused soreness in their vaginas as one even said it's hard to fit it in her mouth, thus no oral sex. I do not find that I am that big. Just for kicks, I did some measuring. It's a bit over 8 inches erect with a 6.4 circumference. Again, I do not find that I am that big. Each woman has said I've been their biggest. However, I find that hard to believe. Have others run in to this problem? How do they mitigate the situation?
 
#10 ·
I'm quite large too, but the women I've been with say they like the extra size and seem to thoroughly enjoy themselves. Remember, they can fit a baby out of there so a penis shouldn't be an issue. Just make sure they are properly turned on first (although that's true regardless of size). The only issue I've ever had was with a woman with vaginismus, but that isn't really a size issue.
 
#39 ·
I don't think it's a matter of whether a woman can expand enough to accept a large penis. The question is whether it's comfortable and enjoyable to do so. Some women (my wife for instance) hate that stretching sensation. No matter how lubricated or turned on she is, she does not want anything stretching her.

Find a woman that likes that sensation and go with it. Heck, some women like fisting! The range in variation as to what feels good is extreme.

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#42 ·
@itsontherocks I see no reason this can't be a real post in spite of what some are saying. 6.4" girth is upper few percent based on another penis thread. At about 6" myself I understand what you are saying. This has been a long road for me as well and we have had to try a variety of positions, lubes and foreplay and it is still uncomfortable at times.

We looked into dialators after a talk with a sex therapist but the ones available had 3 progressive sizes that were woefully small (well below 6" with the largest). Plus they weren't very fun. Oral (bj) works great for us and that's what she prefers - frankly the size might be advantageous from an arousal standpoint there. So give it time and give lots of positive feedback. We use a vibrator extensively because clitoral stimulation is a virtual 100% assurance that she will get abused. I have to work hard to stop her from finishing sometimes ;)

Don't give up and show humor, patience, and skills at foreplay and don't ever assume you can just jump in for a quicky.


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#43 ·
From what I've been told, girth is more of a problem. Do a lot of foreplay, make sure she's relaxed and go very slowly.

Several women have even said that they prefer too small, because the man can then use fingers or oral to please her (many say that PIV never gets them to O anyway no matter the man's size)...and if the man's too small, the woman still feels good that PIV at least pleases HIM and doesn't hurt HER.
 
#54 · (Edited)
I am a modest 6" and my wife says it makes her mouth and vagina sore. The reason for that is that she is only 4' 11" and was 79 lbs. in our younger days. A recent study done showed that penis size was relative to its proportion to a body. When women were asked to choose a 3D printed penis, the majority of them chose one in the 5.5. to 6" range. The biggest selling dildos are 6" ones by far. Men are more hung up on penis size than women are. I lived with a wife and a girlfriend and they were more than fine with my penis. When it comes down to it, it is not the size of the penis but how it is used. A great orgasm that makes her toes curl up is still a great orgasm no matter how she obtained it.

I would say that many guys with big penises have problems with women who are sore afterwards, or just do not want to have sex with them out of fear of pain. The porn world makes it seem that a lot of men have large penises while only a small percentage does. Just that they hire men with large penises because it allows for better camera angles and area to view. This OP sounds like a "mine is bigger than yours" post by portraying it as a problem. Sort of like posting my IQ is so high that I have problems interacting with people, or I am so good looking that girls always want to have sex with me". Do I have a problem or am I bragging ? :)
 
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#55 ·
My range for a guys manhood is 7-11. Under 7 and I cannot reach the big O, over 11 and it hurts doing certain things.

I agree with others, I think it is about body proportions. I am petite, but I have booty and big breasts and a smaller man just doesn't do it for me.


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#59 · (Edited)
@Blondilocks

Actually, big boobs are a weighty issue to our buxom lady brethren.

I have family members and I have friends wives and daughters that underwent breast reduction surgery.

Why?

To the dismay and disappointment of the males here, big boobs are not fun for the lady or young girl that has to haul them around.

They cause back pain issues.

They hurt when doing active exercises.

To prevent the jostling and tremendous up and down forces big boobs cause, these poor ladies must wear very tight, very heavy and very hot [in the summer] bras. Oh, I know, they do not have to. They can wear a light bra...or no bra. But to do so, they will stop traffic.

A girl with a big rack does not have a face. Men do not see her face. They see two boobs and a head above them. Ask these guys what color hair she has or worse, what color eyes she had....they do not have a
clue.

A lady with big boobs will have a hard time trying to get men to take her serious. She will have to work extra hard to gain recognition.

Every man with a swinging **** will try to get in her pants.

She will get whistles on the street and pinches on the subway.

They are her boobs. Yet, every man wants to make them theirs.

Some of these stacked ladies use their boobs as credentials. As climbing, and soft stones to wealth and riches. These are the ones who fill their chest with silicone. This gives the other "proper" girls a bad name, a bad reputation. One unearned, of course.

Big tittied girls get a bad reputation for no reason.

When people reference her, she is the girl with the big tits. You know, the really big tits. Her name, her accomplishments...they are not noticed.

And that is why women have them reduced.

I like boobs, small, medium or large.
 
#67 ·
Size 13 shoe here. I don't have any issues finding shoes that fit, except maybe in the closeout bin.

I feel sorry for any woman that can only O with a 7" or longer penis. Based on studies, your odds of finding one are generally low.

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#68 ·
I am having difficulty in my marriage. The problems we are dealing with are mostly from my side. My husband is very patient with these issues. First, I have large, volumptious breasts. Second, my hair is long, full, shines and always smells like berries. Next, my waist is tiny, giving me almost a perfect hourglass type figure compared to my hips and chest. My legs are long, and look amazing in short skirts, or pretty much anything I wear.

To make matters worse, my personality is so captivating, every man I meet quickly thinks he is in love with me. My vag is so perfect, men have described it as being their silky pleasure hole. I love sex, and mostly want to give out BJs or whatever else my partner wants, whenever he wants it. I orgasm easily from every position. I have never had PMS and in addition to sex, my favorite pass times in life are cooking and cleaning for the man I love. Has anyone else experienced these trials? How did you cope?
 
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