Re: Wife is choosing other man
It hurts because you haven't detached and you are waiting for a glimmer of hope and their relationship to fail. She is already lost to you. You need to move on. I will NEVER understand this urge to save a failed marriage. She had an affair, had the gal to text OM in front of you, wont listen to you or her family and wants to leave. Oh and apparently, she wasn't as obsessed as you believe. I'm thinking you were up on that pedestal to her and never noticed any warning signs. Yes, I find your use of the word "obsessed" troublesome.