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DawnD · 08-12-2010, 07:54 AM

First off, I am terribly sorry to hear about all of this. It is always heartbreaking to find out about cheating, and seeing it has a whole other book of side effects too. But Jessi is right. There are so many people here willing to help, but you have to want it. You won't want to hear some of the things to do, and you will see it as unneccessary, but it really isn't.

First thing to do for you is to figure out if you even want to try to work this out, or if you won't be able to get over it. When I say "try to work it out" that means if you want to even give it a shot or not. From there this place has steps to take either way to help you.

I know you are probably not sure of anything right now, so if you can find someone to watch the kids for a few hours so you can sit down and try to think, then do it. Sit down and ask yourself if your marriage is worth saving after this.

08-12-2010, 07:54 AM	#4 (permalink)
DawnD Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,937	Re: caugh my husband in bed with another woman First off, I am terribly sorry to hear about all of this. It is always heartbreaking to find out about cheating, and seeing it has a whole other book of side effects too. But Jessi is right. There are so many people here willing to help, but you have to want it. You won't want to hear some of the things to do, and you will see it as unneccessary, but it really isn't. First thing to do for you is to figure out if you even want to try to work this out, or if you won't be able to get over it. When I say "try to work it out" that means if you want to even give it a shot or not. From there this place has steps to take either way to help you. I know you are probably not sure of anything right now, so if you can find someone to watch the kids for a few hours so you can sit down and try to think, then do it. Sit down and ask yourself if your marriage is worth saving after this.