Re: red flags everywhere or am I crazy?
Might as well just say it, she's had or is having a PA with this guy. She went to great lengths to lie and hide it from you. I don't know how you could ever trust her again. If you forgive her, she'll either keep doing it with him or find another boyfriend.
"I've paid double for every transgression I've ever made and that motel and that boat are little to ask for"