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hope01 · 09-17-2008, 07:21 PM

I hear you... my husband just told me the same thing...and it is VERY hurtful to hear that from someone you still do care for....

I could not even eat for days after he's told me this ...it was the worse thing I have ever heard! But the truth is, sometimes, people say these things out of confusion, frustration and just not sure of what to do... it's an instant response that justifies their current emotions...
See how it progresses.... maybe it was one of those cases?
If not... then the next step is to figure out if he wants to TRY to even work things out... by yourselves or with a third part through some sort of counselling which I highly recommend...

Good Luck!

09-17-2008, 07:21 PM	#8 (permalink)
hope01 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 24	Re: husband said he is falling out of love I hear you... my husband just told me the same thing...and it is VERY hurtful to hear that from someone you still do care for.... I could not even eat for days after he's told me this ...it was the worse thing I have ever heard! But the truth is, sometimes, people say these things out of confusion, frustration and just not sure of what to do... it's an instant response that justifies their current emotions... See how it progresses.... maybe it was one of those cases? If not... then the next step is to figure out if he wants to TRY to even work things out... by yourselves or with a third part through some sort of counselling which I highly recommend... Good Luck!