Re: World has been turned upside down in a day.
A 4-month EA with someone that she sees on any sort of regular basis is a physical affair.
That is the absolute truth, so you might as well accept it.
So knowing that, if you're inclined to divorce, go for it.
If, however, you want to reconcile, here's how it has to go:
Either she cuts him off IMMEDIATELY AND COMPLETELY (which means that the daughter is removed from her class), or you file for divorce.
And that's it.
Anything less is a half-measure and WILL result in her leaving you for him anyway (even if she doesn't actually leave the house).
Also, if the guy is married, expose the affair to his wife.
Virginia: "Why can't you kids leave well enough alone? Everything was fine until you started digging around."
Burt: "You sound like a Scooby Doo villain."
Last edited by GusPolinski; 03-15-2017 at 09:11 PM.