Re: OPEN confession of a confused man. (please dont judge)
I honestly doubt that he will care enough to change. It seems that he is out to seek thrills like others have mentioned as addictions. If he is addicted to the chase of women, I seriously doubt that he really feels anything deep for anyone at this point in his life.
He is bored with life and something inside him is missing. That is why he is seeking thrills. He is like most teenagers that are bored. He just wants to feel something. His wife doesn't cut it for him anymore, his addiction of choice won't either for long. He needs to find the answers that are within and not external. Very hard thing to do. Most of us are not that deep. Hence why we seek thrills/addictions to get rid of our feelings of boredom, fear, disillusion, despair, depression etc.
Good things come to those who wait...greater things come to those who get off their a$$ and do anything to make it happen.