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post #3 of (permalink) Old 04-05-2017, 08:01 PM
*Deidre*
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Re: Duty sex only

I'm engaged, and getting married next month, so I've been reading articles lately about motherhood, and for some women, they have a hard time feeling sexy after having kids, at least in the beginning years. I have a friend who just had a baby, and she shares her story with me, that sounds just like you and your wife, only she has no interest in sex, it's ''just another thing to get done,'' she says. I don't think she means to hurt her husband, but he obviously is hurting because intimacy is an important part of the relationship. Do you guys have date nights? If not, maybe try to start spending time together once per week or whatever, just you two, without the kids, and see if that changes the mood. Maybe she just can't separate being a mom since the kids came along, and then shifting into a sex mind set with you. Hope things get better.
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