Join Date: Jul 2015
Location: Stars & Stripes
Re: Duty sex only
Your wife sounds like a good woman. It's a real testament to her character that she does something she has an aversion to, just to make you happy, and keep her vows. I know it's hurtful to you in some way, for her to not desire you, but having kids can sometimes mess with a woman's hormones and lady parts.
When she says she wants to want to have sex, she's expressing that she wants to desire you, she just doesn't know how to fix whatever problem she's experiencing. My suggestion would be to try and help her. A christian sex counselor might be beneficial. The counselor might be able to bring your wife to the discussion table, and open up the lines of communication about the subject of sex.
A visit to a doctor and a round of tests might help too, if you can get her to open up and pursue a solution with you.
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