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post #13 of (permalink) Old 04-07-2017, 09:49 AM
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Re: Thoughts on this

Originally Posted by Capster View Post
Yeah, bad plan. A man needs to initiate when he wants sex, not avoid it. That's a beta move.

How do you initiate sex? I wouldn't consider "Hey, let's go upstairs" as initiating. That's talking about sex. When I broke my wife's habit I stripped and locked the door, then jumped on top of her. Initiate hard with your actions, not with your words. If need be, let her turn you down 5 times in a row, that way at least she knows she's doing it. Saying no when you ask her to go upstairs doesn't really feel like a turndown to her. When you're naked and jump on top of her, or throw her to the bed and start making out, then at least she knows you're initiating like an alpha not a beta.
This wouldn't go very far with an LD

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