Re: Thoughts on this
How much time are you spending with her during the week? It takes at least 15 hours a week quality time meeting the 4 emotional needs to feel romantic love. My husband and I get far more time together 1 on 1 over the weekend so I naturally am more in the mood on weekends. But while on a family vacation last week for 10 days, while spending a ton of time together relaxing, laughing, being affectionate, I felt desire every day.
It really does make a difference, likely even to a LD. I wouldn't consider myself one but my desire is much lower, almost non-existent, when I'm not getting enough attention, affection, and intimate/fun conversation with my husband.