Originally Posted by Grateful
I sent that yesterday, to no avail. I am going to sit back and let her talk.
Ok, now I'm confused again: yesterday you were dead set on that divorce: now you are working on things? What is your plan of action? What do you REALLY want out of this? I've said this before on other threads: without direction you get swept around like a boat without a rudder. If you make a concrete plan, decide on a course of action, you won't be knocked around, thrown back and forth, etc...so...what is the course you wish to take?
Personally, I'd pull for your marriage - in my opinion, it's always better to work on the marriage - success means a much stronger, healthier, and more pleasant marriage and environment. It's good for you!