Join Date: Feb 2014
Location: Fort Lauderdale, FL
Re: What Are The Long Term Effects Of An Affair?
Excellent post mr blunt, this is how i feel 4 years into R. I am so busy with a great career and hobbies that my M is no longer what i need in life to be happy, its just a part of it. I dont think the prior notion i had about M being your primary source was healthy at all.
I hardly think much about my wife A, i mean i havent forgot and little things cause some trigger here n there, but not too painful at all, just a faint memory easy to overcome. Our M is better in most regards, some hiccups here n there but cant expect perfection.
Marriage is hard, think about it, live with someone else your entire life, that may sound simple but its actually pretty hard when you consider is two different people, moods, attitudes, etc.....hell i cant get along with myself a lot of Times