Re: Really? Again!
Originally Posted by Thestarsarefalling View Post
Very bad. We had sex once or twice in the last year and maybe a handful of times the year before that. When ever I bring it up he deflects the problem to me saying I was never interest in sex that much when we were younger so what does it matter now or makes me feel bad for even being it up. This would be the main reason I have considered leaving him within the last few years. I had been thinking he probably had erectile disfunction and was too embarrassed to discuss it. He wants to just have a sexless marriage now. He is 38 btw.
I know. It's embarrassing how awful everything is.
I doubt the original affair ever really ended and his latest round of excuses, finding a pet and hobbies is just nonensense. He doesn't want as sex less marriage it's just what the both of you are stuck in right now because neither of you are willing to pull the plug.
Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It's perfect when it arrives and it puts itself in our hands. It hopes we've learned something from yesterday