Join Date: Jan 2016
Location: Southern USA, but longtime NYC boy prior to our move.
Re: Masturbate while husband watches...
My wife does that almost every time we have sex. When I was single I would ask a new sex partner to masturbate for me. Not to get aroused, although I did, but to observe how she gives herself an orgasm. I could see if she liked penetration or clitoral stimulation. How fast, how hard and does she mix up the rhythm or keep it steady. I also learn what her pre orgasm noises and actions are. It is a very good way to learn about a new sex partner, plus you do not need to use lube for intercourse.
Many prefer to drown in a pool of their own morality rather than seek the safety of a different morality when the choice is monogamy or your marriage.