Re: I'm tired of wondering
would you have sexual tension with someone who is 25 years older than you? That's the part that had kept me from blowing up. If this guy was 30 I would have never allowed this. But he seems strange (like a burnout) who on the surface doesn't seem harmful. It would be helpful to have a female perspective.
I would have a very serious "chat"with this dude and inquire on whether he liked hospital food.