Re: My Husband's Best Friend
You've got some good advice so far. All I can add is your husband is lucky to have a wife with good boundaries. He's a lucky idiot. Many women would like the attention, and then it would be your husband on here for other reasons.
The VAR idea is good, but you would need to not shut him down, so that he escalates to proper evidence. But don't encourage either, because that would get turned into "you led him on".