Re: I hate sex but LOVE my husband
Have you always disliked sex? Can you orgasm by yourself or with your husband? Does he do his best to please you in bed? Are your fantasies about sex being different from the reality of what happens?
Are you on any medications that might affect your sex drive. Did the doctors put you on tamoxifen after your cancer?
Does your hatred of your body have to do with the cancer, or something else?
You know sex is very important to a happy marriage, so its worth trying to understand this.
(sorry to sound like I'm interrogating, but I'm hoping for more information to understand what is going on).