Originally Posted by yogachick

I get how you feel!!!

I have changed after my husband's EA but not to the point of tit for tat. I used to completely ignore all other men, probably because I am fiercely loyal by nature and my husband was always such a handful I couldn't even entertain the idea of complicating things by involving myself with someone else! But my husband's EA has made me understand HE is NOT loyal by nature (or at least has a hard time controlling himself!!!) and therefore I had better take care of myself. Now I am friendly to all men. If they complement me, I smile and say thank you, but really nothing more. I would have not even responded to a strangers complement before his EA. Maybe this is a good thing. I do know I am trying my best.

I hope we find our way <3