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Originally Posted by Ladyinblue
My biggest issue is that I don't think my husband "gets it".
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I struggled with this when my H pretty much ripped my heart out. After two years of struggling with it, and doing some really stupid things to try and 'make' him get it, I realized that he will never get it. The love a person can give is not comparable to the pain they can cause. that is my opinion. So even though my H does love me, it will never be enough to heal the pain. I had to go else where (a higher power in my case) to heal that pain. Maybe years down the road when he's matured some he'll understand, but for now I rely on my higher power to help me heal. I've realized that my H doesnt need to 'get it' right now. He just needs to take actions to get it in the future.