Originally Posted by catsy101
I do NOT think I am asking too much when he can't even come thru for me on one of the things I want at least. This marriage is all take take take for him and nothing left for what I want. I am kind of thinking about having an affair that's how much I miss sex, I dont want to "READ A BOOK" to help our marriage when I am sick of it. This whole thing just plain SUX.
Oh my goodness- I replied to another one of your posts asking you what you DID have to be grateful and you never responded to that. He couldn't even come through on one thing? It isn't his fault the amusement park is going to be closed?!? I know you are trying to make him look bad, but he really doesn't sound that awful...sorry.
I don't even know where to start- you moved to where his family was because you were living in a bad neighborhood and your family at the time wasn't able to help and his was- you only want another baby because you want a girl- he has told you he's willing to adopt, but doesn't want another baby (it's a 50/50 chance of having a 4th boy)
Stop playing the victim here- You have sooo much to be grateful for- he gave you 3 children- you want more- you moved to be safe- I'm guessing you are able to be a stay at home mother since you don't mention working and want him to quit his job which is the only means to support your family. I really don't think having an affair is going to help your situation- how could it help?
I'm sorry to sound so harsh, but I doubt there is anything he could do to please you- just TRY thinking of the things you have to be grateful for- 3 healthy kids, a husband that sticks up for you (from reading your other posts), a safe home- nothing in life is ever going to be perfect- just try being happy with what you have- you will probably get more with showing your husband that you are grateful for what he does do then to constantly tell him that he doesn't amount to anything you want.