Re: Do you have inappropriate sexual fantasies
I view it as things that a significant fraction of people would find disturbing.
For some people homosexual fantasies fall into this category - a lot of women would be very concerned to hear that their husbands fantasized about being with another man.
For many violent fantasies are too shocking, but others find them completely OK.
Some of the things on porn sites are really disturbing - but since they are there, I assume there are people who enjoy them - at least as fantasy.
I guess my question was not well defined. I would not be shocked by almost any fantasy from my wife - though there are certainly ones I would not want to try. Other people would be shocked by what I would consider to be relatively mild fantasies.
I am curious as to what an inappropriate fantasy would be? Illegal for sure. But humiliation? Some folks like that sort of thing.