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post #4 of (permalink) Old 05-18-2017, 06:54 PM
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Re: No contact rule questions

"No Contact" is going to let you heal, grow and move on. She is!

You don't have to do it drastically. You don't have to be mean. Just do it.

Do it naturally, slowly, but methodically. No calls, text, emails initiated by you. Detach! Don't jump to answer any from her side, unless it's dire. Excuse yourself from invitations. Believe me, after a bit of time, they'll get the hint. They'll sense you're moving on and when they ask tell them you are moving on. Stop worrying about fbook. Turn off the notices so you won't see what they are doing or just get off it. (Fbook, I don't get why this is such a problem. It's so stupid, IMO)

BTW have you read "I'm a Nice Guy, the nicest guy you'd ever want to meet. Why doesn't she want me?"

No More Mr Nice Guy

I'm sure someone can link you the 180...

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"In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing." T.R.


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