Re: No contact rule questions
Never married. Ex Girlfriend. Was closer to her than the woman I was married to for 13 1/2 years though.
OK, I'm a bit confused. You two are Divorced, yes? SHE left and wanted the divorce? What were the reasons for the divorce? If you ARE divorced, WHY are you still so engaged in her life? it doesn't sound like you have kids, why why so much interaction? I would start detaching and start living our own life. Start limiting your talking/email/etc.. DON't tell her what you are doing -- just do it. If she questions, just say, sorry did't check my phone latetly, etc.. You really don't owe her any explanations.