Re: How to deal with my situation?
Your husband is obviously a first class moron, and if it is any consolation, relationships borne out of infirdelity have a very very low percentage of working out long term. So bozo may wind up with the karmas bus hitting him.
Your best revenge is to become happy again, and ignoring his stupid antics is the first step. This flaunting is nothing but a power play to show you how he is in control of everything. I hope you have a good attorney and maybe you can use his antics to make it as bit costly for him.
Chatting with your children from BED proves he has the moral compass of a two year old.
You can and will do better.