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Old 09-02-2010, 08:10 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: Whats Normal?

It is either a hormonal issue (low testosterone- does he have other symptoms: brain fog, always tired, falling asleep after work?), a relationship issue (any resentment?) , attraction issue, or even performance pressure (embarrasment), or a health issue (Diabetes, high blood pressure, blood vessels narrowing). Viagra generally will help them all - so long as he is willing to be with you, and you do your part to "arouse".

But getting to the root cause is important. I personally have caused my husband "Performance Pressure" issues in the past- as I was simply wanting him too much, PLUS he has lower -but normal Testosterone levels. These things played on my mind alot as I worried it was a Desire issue, then I would start worrying about his levels. Thankfully I have overcome most of this. But an occasion slither of Viagra, oh what a blessing!

How old is your husband ?
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