| | Re: i need help
thanks to all the replies, i just needed to know that I am not selfish when I ask him about this topic, because I gets upset, but he said that he knows it and that he feels embarrassed to talk about this topic. I still don't get it because yes we talk about kids in the future, I am 37 and he is 42 but I am not sure how are we going to have kids. He treats me very nicely he wants to make sure I am happy, but material things will not give happiness unless I have a healthy marriage and in this situation I don't know who can be happy!!!