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the guy · 09-05-2010, 10:23 PM

boy i screwed up, as a young man at 26 I married my submissive wife of 21, had very dominant sex and everything else went out the window. now 20yrs later I have found that I was submissive in the relationship. I let her do what she wanted for 19 yrs of marriage and dismissed her behavior. I dissmissed her and dismissed my duties as a husband. All we had was sex that was the glue; now i see that is when I was most dominant. know i get it (thanks)

When i confronted cheating wife I was very dominant in my discusion (no anger,begging,cring) just pure emotional dominant control with how I spoke. when she broke down during the confrontation and she thanked me for stepping up and actualy giving a dam, I spanked her. But this time around, it wasn't sexual it was........ I quess real punishment for her bad behavior, weird I finally said no.
make no mistake I was a bad husband; made up for it by letting her buy, screw, and do whom and what she wanted. my bad

Its been almost 7 months since I MADE THE DICISION TO CHANGE OUR MARRIAGE, she has been very receptive and loves the intimacy and attention she is finally getting. And by the way "no she cant go out for a girls night out" but WE can go out with some friends.

09-05-2010, 10:23 PM	#48 (permalink)
the guy Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: CA Posts: 7,294	Re: 20 Plus Years, very happy husband writes... boy i screwed up, as a young man at 26 I married my submissive wife of 21, had very dominant sex and everything else went out the window. now 20yrs later I have found that I was submissive in the relationship. I let her do what she wanted for 19 yrs of marriage and dismissed her behavior. I dissmissed her and dismissed my duties as a husband. All we had was sex that was the glue; now i see that is when I was most dominant. know i get it (thanks) When i confronted cheating wife I was very dominant in my discusion (no anger,begging,cring) just pure emotional dominant control with how I spoke. when she broke down during the confrontation and she thanked me for stepping up and actualy giving a dam, I spanked her. But this time around, it wasn't sexual it was........ I quess real punishment for her bad behavior, weird I finally said no. make no mistake I was a bad husband; made up for it by letting her buy, screw, and do whom and what she wanted. my bad Its been almost 7 months since I MADE THE DICISION TO CHANGE OUR MARRIAGE, she has been very receptive and loves the intimacy and attention she is finally getting. And by the way "no she cant go out for a girls night out" but WE can go out with some friends.