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Originally Posted by draconis
My parents and my siblings spouse's parents hate each other.
For the most part holiday with them are split because it is the only way to keep the peace for everyone.
I think you need to tell your husband that his first family is in his house and that you need to be united in all decissions. He has to help and back you at standing up to his parents.
draconis
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hmm, well the hate issue is much present between my parents and his parents. or specially, between my parents and his mother.
my husband is pretty much told me that he does not want to stand up to his parents, he loves them way too much and that is the reason why he even overlooks all that they do wrong. but then i kindly pointed out that the wrong they are doing is not to just anybody, but to ME, his WIFE. he sorts of places his family on this pedestal and despite all the crap they do to me, he just overlooks it all. it's very frustrating and tiring. he doesn't interact with my family at all, but since i married him, i compromised for the sake of our happiness, specially HIS happiness and made lots of effort to interact with his family. but his kind are very manipulative and his mother is a control freak. but like i said, he just overlooks all that and has a justification for EVERY SINGLE WRONG they do to me.