draconis

When me and my wife were first together she stood up to my father for something he did that she thought was wrong. When it came down to it my dad came to me as if I would soften the blow for him and "make her see".

Instead I told him he was wrong, She is my wife and I stand by her, Any decision she makes is as if I make.

Although family (parents and siblings) will always be there and a spouse can come and go. There is never going to be anyone that understands or that you are closer to then a husband wife. This is not just a general thing or a social one. There is a science behind it too (chemical).

I think your husband is being selfish because he is letting you take all the crap. I think the first thing you need to do is take a stand vs your husband. You deserve to have a man that puts his wife and kids first, period.

draconis