| | Re: Wife is home from vacation
I have nothing new to add, as you are very much doing exactly what you need to be doing.
It is early in the game for this, but I want to plant a seed, for you to do with as you will.
This seed is just this. If, and I mean IF, in your relationship these things with you and your woman, the anger issues and the resentment and everything else between you two, are sincerely being addressed, IF the time comes that it is for you to invite your woman back into an intimate relationship with you, you MUST have in attitude and plan and presentation it is a NEW relationship altogether.
These things your woman is saying, are exactly this, she has no desire to be invited back into the old relationship, whether now or in even a year or two down the road after even the most perfect of improvements to yourself.
So it is not only a "new you", it is a "new relationship".
I am hoping this is understood what I am trying to say.
I continue to wish you well.