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freeshias4me · 09-23-2008, 11:45 PM

Good, open minds are a must, as is COMPROMISE.

I remember dating a fellow a few years ago... He was Muslim, and I grew up a completely different faith. He told me if we got married, we WOULD send the kids to Muslim school/training.
I told him that would NOT work, because it isn't fair.
I told him the only way it would work, is if the child got taught what BOTH of us believed, and why. (But of course, not with the pressure of one or both parents saying the other's views are WRONG...Just simply what each believes, and why.)

Does that help you???

09-23-2008, 11:45 PM	#7 (permalink)
freeshias4me Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ontario Posts: 51	Re: Different viewpoints Good, open minds are a must, as is COMPROMISE. I remember dating a fellow a few years ago... He was Muslim, and I grew up a completely different faith. He told me if we got married, we WOULD send the kids to Muslim school/training. I told him that would NOT work, because it isn't fair. I told him the only way it would work, is if the child got taught what BOTH of us believed, and why. (But of course, not with the pressure of one or both parents saying the other's views are WRONG...Just simply what each believes, and why.) Does that help you???