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the guy · 09-15-2010, 11:23 PM

I understand, my wife needed the same thing. I hadnt kissed her in years and she stayed with me, I quess it was her boytoys.

I think you and we all have our own situations, and there were times were she was "good" for years then she was "bad". I believe it was my behaviors that caused this. This was my point If he doesnt fix his behavior, you may relaps into another fake relationship for attention you are not getting.

I hope you find a way to get your husband to see what he is doing/or not doing.
I wish I could tell you what caused me to see the light after 19 years of a troubled marraige, but I believe it was God that turned on my light bulb, b/c my wife, was more and more heading for a very dangerous outcome to her past behaviors.
Again I hope some how you could show your husband what his behavior is doing to you- and he changes

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the guy Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: CA Posts: 7,291	Re: I stopped seeing the OM and then... I understand, my wife needed the same thing. I hadnt kissed her in years and she stayed with me, I quess it was her boytoys. I think you and we all have our own situations, and there were times were she was "good" for years then she was "bad". I believe it was my behaviors that caused this. This was my point If he doesnt fix his behavior, you may relaps into another fake relationship for attention you are not getting. I hope you find a way to get your husband to see what he is doing/or not doing. I wish I could tell you what caused me to see the light after 19 years of a troubled marraige, but I believe it was God that turned on my light bulb, b/c my wife, was more and more heading for a very dangerous outcome to her past behaviors. Again I hope some how you could show your husband what his behavior is doing to you- and he changes