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Old 09-16-2010, 01:18 PM   #6 (permalink)
ButterflyKisses
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Default Re: Time to act

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Originally Posted by ThinkTooMuch View Post
Hi ButterflyKisses,

Have I said I think your husband and my wife share too many behaviors?

I really thought we had a breakthrough last week, but I'm once again a victim of my own optimism, her willingness for intimacy, closeness and sex vanished after 5 days.

I think you and I need to stop thinking our spouses will change for the better, the changes are evanescent, evaporate like dew in sunshine. As much as we love and loved them, neither of us is getting what we need and want, the frustration enormous.

I was looking for frequent flier flights to Seattle and San Francisco, a need for a new password caused me to see your recent post.

I just wish I good stop hoping things will change for the better.

Mark
Hi Mark,

I too, regained hope on a few occasions. Sometimes It just seems one big hurt and it's done would be the way to go, rather than the constant roller coaster of emotions.
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