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CaptainMyCaptain · 09-19-2010, 01:56 PM

Ok, my wife has told me since we were dating that she never had orgasms with others during oral sex, or intercourse; but did through manual stimulation. She was 33 when we met and started dating. I think she has had an average amount of partners for someone her age, anywhere from 8-15 would be my guess. I've never asked for a specific number.

She looked very surprised the first time that I did oral on her. I remember thinking that the look on her face was one of shock. I don't know if it was shock from how much she enjoyed it, or because it was the first time that she had an orgasm from oral.

It took maybe a couple of times of us having sex before she had her first orgasm through intercourse. I am not at all well endowed, so it is hard to believe that I am the only person that has been able to do this for her.

She tells me that she enjoyed sex before, but nothing like she does with me. I want to believe her, of course, but I have a hard time believing that she isn't making this up.

I have two questions for the ladies: 1) Is it possible to enjoy sex, even without orgasms? How?

2) Should I believe that I am the only person to have been able to give her orgasms? I read once in a magazine that this is the Most popular lie told by women to their men. Is it?

09-19-2010, 01:56 PM	#1 (permalink)
CaptainMyCaptain Registered User Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Alabama Posts: 14	First person that was able to give her an orgasm....Really? Ok, my wife has told me since we were dating that she never had orgasms with others during oral sex, or intercourse; but did through manual stimulation. She was 33 when we met and started dating. I think she has had an average amount of partners for someone her age, anywhere from 8-15 would be my guess. I've never asked for a specific number. She looked very surprised the first time that I did oral on her. I remember thinking that the look on her face was one of shock. I don't know if it was shock from how much she enjoyed it, or because it was the first time that she had an orgasm from oral. It took maybe a couple of times of us having sex before she had her first orgasm through intercourse. I am not at all well endowed, so it is hard to believe that I am the only person that has been able to do this for her. She tells me that she enjoyed sex before, but nothing like she does with me. I want to believe her, of course, but I have a hard time believing that she isn't making this up. I have two questions for the ladies: 1) Is it possible to enjoy sex, even without orgasms? How? 2) Should I believe that I am the only person to have been able to give her orgasms? I read once in a magazine that this is the Most popular lie told by women to their men. Is it?