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draconis · 10-29-2007, 07:05 PM

Personally through my first divorce I was so sick to the stomach for the first week I couldn't think of it. I still felt commited to the marriage to see it to the end that I kept my morals even though she was breaking our vows.

But that is just me. I think you need to do what you are comfortable with. If you feel comfortable having a fling with your husband so be it. If you want to start moving on to someone different, so be it. Personally I never could until after the divorse was final. I did find a female friend I could dance with. Made me feel a bit better even though nothing would have ever come of it but I was able to have a good time.

draconis

10-29-2007, 07:05 PM	#2 (permalink)
draconis Forum Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North East Posts: 3,335	Re: Sex & Divorce Personally through my first divorce I was so sick to the stomach for the first week I couldn't think of it. I still felt commited to the marriage to see it to the end that I kept my morals even though she was breaking our vows. But that is just me. I think you need to do what you are comfortable with. If you feel comfortable having a fling with your husband so be it. If you want to start moving on to someone different, so be it. Personally I never could until after the divorse was final. I did find a female friend I could dance with. Made me feel a bit better even though nothing would have ever come of it but I was able to have a good time. draconis