| | Re: all i do is hurt people
It sounds like your poor daughter is a pawn in all this. You need your family support. I think what I would do for my daughter is stay with her dad and document everything. Every date that he says that he is going to take her away from you. Have a paper trail, keep it somewhere safe. Get your ducks in a row and possibly go on the fact that he will try to alienate your child from you. There is a list of things that you have to meet to be "in the best interest of a child" look at what that is in your state. Have witnesses, if possible when he is talking about taking your child away. I would end it with Robert, whether he makes you feel good, or is supportive because it will not look good if this becomes a custudy issue and you left your daughter with the dad to be with Robert. If your marriage is destined to fail let it, but do not be the cause of that failure. You can walk away knowing that you did everything in your power to help your daughter first. These are the things I would do. I would dot my i's a cross my t's and get my stuff in order. Acting on a whim isn't going to help you get away from someone who controls you. It takes time and planning.
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