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Blanca · 09-24-2010, 01:39 PM

Depression is not always a bad thing. Its really good that you dont feel good in this situation. Depression can be the motivator. it will drive you to find a solution. if you did feel good in this situation then there'd be something to worry about.

You do sound very intelligent. but it also sounds like your taking on your H's burdens, too. I think you should set his issues aside for now and focus on what you can control- you. make a realistic plan of small goals that will help you get to your ultimate goal of a house and kids. going back to school is a great start.

09-24-2010, 01:39 PM	#5 (permalink)
Blanca Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 4,049	Re: Illiterate husband can't find a job! Depression is not always a bad thing. Its really good that you dont feel good in this situation. Depression can be the motivator. it will drive you to find a solution. if you did feel good in this situation then there'd be something to worry about. You do sound very intelligent. but it also sounds like your taking on your H's burdens, too. I think you should set his issues aside for now and focus on what you can control- you. make a realistic plan of small goals that will help you get to your ultimate goal of a house and kids. going back to school is a great start. __________________ "I'm a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality." - Bryon Katie