holdingtwenty

Thanks jimrich and 827aug. I am really doing fine right now, although I am sad. I have been keeping busy with friends and family and forming a closer bond with them. My wife and I still talk on the phone once or twice a day but she is cold to me. She attempts to make me feel guilty by saying, "you chose your friends and family over me." I do not or will not buy into that nonsense. I told her I was willing to go to Florida 5 or 6 months of the year but not 10 or 12 like she wants. Every single person that both of us have talked to about this have seen it my way.

I am taking it one day at a time right now and have been telling everyone we are separated. I may go to florida to join her in December or January if I still want to stay married. I just don't think that will happen and I will just file for divorce.

Anyway this forum has been great for me---especially when I feel lonely.

Thanks to everyone.