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happilymarried67 · 09-27-2008, 01:44 PM

Yep, sex certainly makes for a happy marriage. It doesn't matter how beautiful you are or how skinny you are. Look at the stars who cheat on other beautiful stars. It is how you make your partner feel. I am 41 my hubby is turning 50 next year. I am not the same as I was when I was 18 but I do make him feel special, loved and I still love to play. But if neither wants to be there, your kids are not going to keep you together, nor should they. The letter he wrote is really a cry for love and attention. He isn't getting that at home and neither are you. He states those things in the letter to try and get some sympathy out of the 18 year old. He sounds like his marriage has given him some low-self esteem and the young one lady being interested is increasing his ego and self-worth. But that is another whole side to the issue.

09-27-2008, 01:44 PM	#7 (permalink)
happilymarried67 Forum Supporter Join Date: May 2008 Location: Arizona, USA Posts: 125	Re: I can not believe I am writing this.... Yep, sex certainly makes for a happy marriage. It doesn't matter how beautiful you are or how skinny you are. Look at the stars who cheat on other beautiful stars. It is how you make your partner feel. I am 41 my hubby is turning 50 next year. I am not the same as I was when I was 18 but I do make him feel special, loved and I still love to play. But if neither wants to be there, your kids are not going to keep you together, nor should they. The letter he wrote is really a cry for love and attention. He isn't getting that at home and neither are you. He states those things in the letter to try and get some sympathy out of the 18 year old. He sounds like his marriage has given him some low-self esteem and the young one lady being interested is increasing his ego and self-worth. But that is another whole side to the issue. __________________ "Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I need it most." --Anonymous