devastedwife

Update: So today we went to get and ultrasound to find out what the baby is. Its a girl, which he wanted. Afterwords, we got in an argument about how I'm leaving and taking his child away from him. He is basically making me look like the bad guy. I told him that I won't stick around while he is still talking to this OW. We live with his parents right now, so the only place I have to go is with my family in Colorado. He told me that he would stop talking to her FOR NOW, until the baby is born so that I don't leave. I asked him to call her in front of me so I know he's not lying. Well he's not willing to do that. He wants to tell her in person this weekend when he goes to her city for work. He will be there for three days, and I am pretty sure he will be with her all three days every chance he gets. I'm not sure I believe him about the whole no contact thing. If anything they will just be more discrete. I have told him if I find out that he contacts her even once after he supposedly tells her, I will leave. What do you all think about this?