Showa

My wife & i are strugling with the way her parents are thinkin,she doesnt dare 2 say no 2 them in most of the issue & its affectin our relationship alot as & when things pop up.We thought as their getting old & her youngest bro is abt registr in2 University & we wont be able 2 help much as we also had our commitment & as we're newlyweds, we decided 2 buy medical & hospital insurance 4 them in any case we neednt hav 2 cope with huge bills in future,we did check with her 2 sis whether do they want 2 contribute but e answ was NO as due 2 their finaces,we decided 2 go ahead ourselves BUT her parents didnt wan it,we explain 2 them that this would benefit parents & us in future.DUE to wat we can afford alone & also FIL is into his last year of entiry age alredy in 6weeks.I feel very hopless & frust abt rejected & more Insucure of further years in marriage life as my wife wont say NO when future bills come & we hav 2 cope with debts ALONE.I'm considrin divore as i cnt see our future now.The issue is not juz abt money but more on putting her signature as the gurantor with the hospital in bearing the whole cost alone when the others siblings cannot afford in small amount now & not to talk abt Huge in future.