Originally Posted by cherrypie18
Oh yes a lot of men these days need to get their balls back. Seems like their mothers crushed them while they were still little boys.
Women don't need a sissy guy who asks her for permission to go out (no offense to anyone I guess). We want men who put down rules, not in disrespectful ways that is and have lots of self respect, but not to the extent that their ego controls them to the very core. We don't want someone who cheats, abuses and disregards us. But we also don't need a maid, and a girlfriend...at least I personally don't. I never asked my husband to do laundry, iron, do dishes or any type of house work. He only helped me with heavy lifting and reaching places that were too high for me. Oh and I HATE it when men gossip in front of women. Total turn off lol
The way men were like in the older days was good, but they thought they had control and could do anything, including cheat and abuse. Today, you need to find the perfect balance by showing your wife your love in manly way and not a sissy way. I'm not gonna love you more because you folded my laundry or scrubbed the floor. You might as well wear my bra if you're gonna be acting like another woman just like me.
I like your post Cherrpie. I really do. You've put so much emotion and thought into your world and it's really very very nice. But I gotta say "perfect balance", perfection exists in nature but not in us humans. If we get close to it we're truly blessed.